She took care of you. Now let's make sure someone's watching over her.
I'm Seth, a licensed Registered Nurse — 15 years in healthcare, the last 5 as an RN. I visit your loved one in person at their care facility and send you an honest, unbiased report within 24 hours — because I work for your family, not the facility.
No obligation to start. Most first visits are scheduled within 2–3 days.
How a Check-In Works
Three steps, start to finish — no facility paperwork, no waiting on hold.
Tell me about your loved one
Share their name, facility, and what's been on your mind. Takes about two minutes.
I visit in person
I go to the facility, observe their care and surroundings, and check in on how they're really doing.
You get the truth, fast
A clear written report with notes and photos within 24 hours — good news or concerns, no sugar-coating.
The Same Checklist That's in Your Paperwork
Nothing here is guesswork — every item below is written into the service agreement you sign, so you know exactly what you're paying for.
What's prescribed compared against what's documented as given. Any gap or discrepancy is flagged the same day.
Checked for bedsores, swelling, bruising, or early signs of skin breakdown.
Reviewed against the facility's own log and prior visits, when available.
Personal care, clothing, and daily living needs observed firsthand.
How they're really doing — talked to directly, not just observed from the doorway.
Cleanliness, safety, and whether the posted care plan matches what's actually happening.
This is observation and documentation, not medical diagnosis or treatment. Anything urgent is escalated to the facility and your family right away.
Simple, Upfront Pricing
Flat rates, no hourly billing. Pick the visit that fits your situation — I'll always confirm the exact total before scheduling anything.
Pre-Placement Audit
Before your family signs anything, I visit the facility in person, walk the halls, and talk to staff — so you know exactly what you're placing your loved one into.
- In-person tour & staff interviews
- Full red-flag checklist & rating
- Written report within 24 hours
Standard Check Visit
Your loved one is already placed and something feels off. I visit, run the full checklist, and tell you the truth about what I find.
- Full clinical checklist
- Photos & written notes
- Report within 24 hours
Monthly Peace-of-Mind
Recurring visits at a discounted rate, so you always have current eyes on the ground without a big bill every time.
- Everything in a Standard Visit
- Recurring schedule you set
- Priority scheduling
Rush Visit
Something's wrong right now and you can't wait days. I prioritize getting there within 48 hours.
- Everything in a Standard Visit
- Scheduled within 48 hours
- Same-day report when possible
Traveling outside Sacramento, Placer, El Dorado, or Yolo County? A small mileage add-on may apply — I'll always confirm the total before scheduling.
A Second Set of Eyes, On Your Side
Facility-employed staff answer to the facility. I answer only to your family.
15 years in healthcare — the last 5 as an RN — means I notice what a phone call can't tell you: skin integrity, hydration, mood, medication compliance.
Can't get there yourself every week? I'm your eyes and ears on the ground.
Photos and written notes you can reference later — not just a reassuring phone call.
"I've spent my career at the bedside. I know what good care looks like — and what it looks like when corners get cut. My promise is simple: I'll tell your family the truth, every time."— Seth, RN · Founder, The Grandparent Standard
Where I Work
Currently scheduling independent check-ins across the greater Sacramento region.
Outside this area? Message me anyway — I may still be able to help, or point you to someone who can.
Frequently Asked
Is this a replacement for the facility's care?
No. This is an independent second set of eyes — a way to verify your loved one is getting the care you're paying for, and to catch small problems before they become big ones.
How much does a check-in cost?
Flat rates, no hourly billing — see the full pricing breakdown above. Visits range from $125–$250 depending on urgency and whether it's a one-time check or a recurring plan. If you're outside the core service area, I'll confirm any small mileage add-on before scheduling.
How fast can you visit?
Most first check-ins are scheduled within 2–3 days of your request. If the situation is urgent, tell me and I'll do my best to move faster.
Is this confidential?
Yes. Everything I observe and report stays between your family and me.
Do you work with all types of facilities?
Assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing, and board-and-care homes. If you're not sure your situation fits, just ask.
Request Your Loved One's First Check-In
Fill out a few details and I'll reach out within 24 hours to schedule.
- No obligation, no pressure
- Response within 24 hours
- Serving Sacramento, Placer, El Dorado & Yolo counties